Comments on: What would you do if you discovered your daughter was working in the sex industry?

By: esthernunoo

esthernunoo — Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:15:53 +0000

i would slap da heck outta her, but since she’s 18……. then we’d have a big talk. I’d tell her that since she’s 18, she can either leave, start paying the rent, or qiut her job as a hoochie, and I would get her a decent job . or mayb u could set her up like how they do on talk shows where the kid gets kidnapped by a criminal(who is actually a police officer). They get blind folded, brought to the show, told all the horrible things that will happen to them, then the blind fold is taken off. this helps the children realize what danger they are putting themselvs in. Or maybe you can make her feel filthy by not wanting to touch her(like shake her hand) or touch anything that she touched.

By: Faded

Faded — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 21:45:04 +0000

Well first off she’s 18 so you can’t really do anything about it. She’s old enough to make her own decisions. I don’t see anything wrong with a dancer, but if she were a prostitute then the’ll be an issue with that. I’d sit her down and have a talk.

By: trust_amy

trust_amy — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 16:26:29 +0000

If all she is doing is dancing then what is the problem, it can be a good way to make quick money if you don’t mind people leering at you. If she isn’t just dancing then it’s her choice if she wants to muck up her life and her parents don’t care then that’s her problem.
I doubt she would be a bad influence, her friends may even get her away from it.

By: buckweet

buckweet — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 09:24:55 +0000

Sit her down and talk to her about it!!!!!!!!!Bye!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Star888

Star888 — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 04:59:09 +0000

this just goes to show you what overly strict parenting can do to a child. A relationship with your parents between the ages of 15-17 is so crucial. Why can’t parents just be more of a friend with their kids at this stage? Although this doesnt apply to every child, I certainly believe that establishing an environment that promotes talking about what’s going on in my childs life and their friends is a better way for communication. Guidance is necessary, but should not be hurtful or done in a way that singles the child out. Parents seriously need to understand that their kids will someday be completely out of their control. I hope they consider themselves fully responsible for what they have turned their daughter into.

By: Lil Bits

Lil Bits — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 01:32:36 +0000

prya for her if dat was my child grab her and pull her out that is just nasty!!!!! im only 14 so……..

By: melodytcromer

melodytcromer — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:02:32 +0000

I would shake her hand and tell her it is great that she is now working and not mooching off her parents. I wouldn’t suggest telling them either if she wants them to know she has a mouth and could tell them herself I’m sure. If she is eighteen then she is old enough to make her mind up about what she does or does not want to do for money. It is now her choice and she is paying her own bills so why complain or start family trouble when it really has nothing to do with you nor your own life

By: CHINADOLL901

CHINADOLL901 — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 08:46:37 +0000

i would go up there and drag her little a** off that stage and throw her and the car, and let these people know how old she really is and call the police on the club. and take her home and talk to her letting her know her body is something precious and only suppose to viewed by her husband,and let her know them men and the clubs are nasty and they probably got something and they want to past it around that’s why their at the club, trying to hit on them young girls showing them money because they know that’s y the young girls are up there, and let her know she have to respect her body cause if she don’t no body else will.

By: sunshineprincess032003

sunshineprincess032003 — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:30:59 +0000

I would be very upset and hurt, but with them being 18 there’s not much you can really do or say except that its their decision and if its what they want then ok. Reason why I say this is because if you tell them No they can’t do that they will move out and do it, if they are already moved out they will no longer talk to you stating they are 18 and they will do as they please. So either way you go your going to left behind. So support them on their decision. That doesn’t mean you have to agree with it.

By: HGS

HGS — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:55:07 +0000

We set the best possible precedents for our children as parents, but there are no real manuals on parenting. If our best was not good enough to set a good example for our children, once they are adults, the choices are theirs and there is really not very much we can do if we don’t want to push them even further away from us. The best thing a parent can do is to to be there for his/her daughter/son and to provide as much love and understanding as possible. Yelling and screaming doesn’t solve problems, but listening and talking does.